This resonated with me. I spent five years bouncing from relationship to relationship, avoiding my issues with loneliness, giving and giving and giving. It wasn’t until this last break up that I had my best friend promise she’d hold me accountable for staying single for an entire year.

Well it’s been a year of “fixing myself rather than other people” and I have to agree with you, I have rediscovered my confidence and feel fulfilled in friendships that reciprocate in value and energy.

Thank you for writing this.

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Type-A gal that’s trying “not having a plan” in a new state. Degrees in History & International Affairs. Freelance content creation. akwalks@gmail.com.

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Abigail Walker

Abigail Walker

Type-A gal that’s trying “not having a plan” in a new state. Degrees in History & International Affairs. Freelance content creation. akwalks@gmail.com.